When They Ask

When the boys ask about that dark day, as they are bound to do, we will tell them what we remember.  We will tell them about the unfathomable destruction and loss of life.  We will tell them about the acts of bravery and selflessness.  We will tell them that suddenly, there was a "Before" and an "After".  We will try to explain things we don't even understand.  

When they ask about the years in between, we'll point them to the examples set by their uncles and their service to their country.  We will tell them about the ones that didn't come home.  We will tell them about the good that was done and the mistakes that were made.   We will try to explain things we don't even understand. 

When they ask about last night and the news that came as they slept, we will teach them that evil should never be allowed to flourish.  We will teach them that violence should not be celebrated, but to understand that is the only response in extreme circumstances to ensure justice.  We will teach them that loving and respecting each other are the true paths to peace.  We will try to explain things we don't even understand, but we will try.